For the past six months I have heard opinions [majority unsolicited] from others - who have never walked in my shoes - about what I MUST do and what I am OBLIGATED to do for the rest of MY LIFE, in reference to caring for my life partner.
I [and no one else - not even Ken's family] have been the one and only person to care for Ken during the past five years, as his health as declined. I - and no one else - put their entire life on hold and sacrificed in order to center my entire days around Ken and his health issues.
I did all of this out of my love for Ken and because I was led to believe that this was for OUR future.
Ken and his sisters recently announced that there was a change in plans for my future. It was now DEMANDED of me to move with Ken to Pennsylvania - to his sister's house - where I was expected to take care of Ken and his sister [aka servant / caretaker].
For those of you who dare to bash or claim that I do not love Ken, because I am in the UP trying to get my life back on track, after the devistation of being USED for five years, please read the paragraph above - because that servant position is now available and you are welcome to apply for it.
MY BIGGEST CONCERN OF ALL IS FOR KEN'S PHYSICAL HEALTH AND WELL BEING IN PENNSYLVANIA.